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A Block?  A Trap?  A Weakness?  A wrong?   
A Stress with nowhere to go, except "toxify" others and self.
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​You may want to validate a "valid" complaint.  Yup.  If something is not right, or accurate, or fair, or nice, or . . .  any number of things we don't like or think don't work as they should, we feel that a complaint is valid.  That's part of our job, right? 
Well, sorry to tell you, it is not.  You may ask if you should just let things that are wrong continue.  We don't advocate for that at all, but there are better ways to right a wrong or correct an error, or better a plan.  Read on. 

Since your malady is signifying an etiology of complaining, you may want to consider how another dealt with this.  
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I know a lady very well who was dealing with moles - heavy, thick, dark moles - all over her upper trunk on the front and back (more so on the back and sides).  Some may advise to go to the doctor/dermatologist, which she did for a particularly bothersome one under her bra strap, and $300 later they simply cut it off and then charged an additional $400 for a lab to determine that it was not cancer.  Whew!  Needless to say, she needed a better way to deal with literally hundreds more. 
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She tried freezing them off with various brands of freeze applications. She tried bee venom, chemical creams, and even electric shock pens, to no avail. 
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She then came to the LifeRegeneration Jubilee Options App., which revealed one root etiology of . . . wait for it . . . complaining.  Once she dealt with complaining, then the other things began to help.  It was not easy.  She did rounds of tapping and brought the feelings of dealing with complaining down, then during her day caught herself again complaining over and over and over.  She returned to another session for the complaining and learned some tools for dealing with it every time it came up during her day.  She had to confront:
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- if they would stop being rude and inconsiderate, this would solve it. 
- I just need to avoid the talk around me, and the news all over the place.
- Why does God not change them?  Why does God not stop the wrong doing?
- Why can't they see that the way they are doing it is wrong or not working?
- Why is it MY problem to deal with instead of them fixing what needs to be fixed?
- Even though others should not do what they are doing, I cannot change them.
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She included this and more in the tapping time and then chose to release the complaining and the frustration, anger, and hurt attached to it.  Only then did the body kick into healing mode and shed the moles.  Yes. 
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Now be aware, if you also have this physical issue, your etiology may be totally different. Your body maladies are merely a type of stop sign, telling you to deal with an emotional or spiritual issue before the other things you are using will start working to, "take down the stop sign," and heal up.  
 

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To release the need to complain:

 

  • Use your, "Relax Release Restore Renew," booklet from the LifeRegeneration Library, to go to your notebook and write down specifically any issue(s) or people you complain about (leave 3 to 4 empty lines between each). 

  • Now write any emotions that go with that complaining, again leaving 3-4 lines between each. 

  • Rate the intensity of each emotion, between 1 - 10 and write that down next to it.  

  • Use rounds of tapping - intention and focus are prime here as you follow the script here with each point on a tapping point, or a script of your own.

    • I choose stop complaining 

    • Even though I don't feel like doing it

    • Even though I have a reason for my complaint(s) or need for change

    • I know I have a valid reason for complaining but choose to see differently

    • I choose to consider another way to put in a request for change

    • I want also am wiling to let God change them and change me

    • I thank God that He gives me the ability to do this

    • ​I release and totally let go of that complaining

    • I am safe and I am free

    • Any other phrases that come to mind involving this

  • breathe deep (4:6 ratio) and relax

  • drink some water

  • rate the intensity again and if above a 1, just do more rounds of tapping and focus on letting the emotions go.

  • When you have moved any tension about this down to a 3 or less, you're ready to move on to replacing that complaining with a jubilee option, so check out that chart and see what your body/soul comes up with  ​

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Here is another suggested tapping routine you may want to follow: 

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  • To stop complaining feels like I'm allowing a wrong to continue. 

  • To stop complaining seems like I'm not being responsible in correcting a wrong.

  • Instead of complaining I choose to come up with a way to resolve what's wrong with an action or plan or rule. 

  • I feel frustrated, but choose to let that go while allowing another to correct the wrong. 

  • I choose to not be angry but to release that in favor of approaching someone who will listen and address the change needed. 

  • fI release the need to complain and choose to go forward in peace and satisfaction.

  • God is giving me grace for the process of releasing this. 

  • I will not be frustrated, anger, or hurt any more, but walk in peace and satisfaction.  

 

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If you are still struggling with complaining, consider the following:

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God tells us that sin has clear consequences, and this is true for complaining. In fact, there are severe consequences for continuing to complain.  Crazy, but I think of Miriam - Aaron and Moses' sister when she complained ("spoke against") Moses. She was smitten with leprosy, and she knew why she had the leprosy - complaining.  In fact Aaron had complained along with her and when she became leprous, he recognized it as sin they had both committed.  Moses asked God to heal her and she was then shut out for 7 days; that's pretty severe. 

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So, even if you have another or others complaining with you and due to this you see your complaint valid, the fact that your body puts up a "stop sign" makes it clear that you need to stop complaining.  You think?  It does not matter if other are validating it and complaining also.  

 

If your issue with complaining is causing you a physical malady, consider how relatively easy it is to stop, ask forgiveness from God, and ask Him to help you, and possibly ask Him to deal with the issue that needs correction instead of your complaint. 

 

You will want to go through this process because when you come out the other side you will truly be free and healthy! Yes!

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​Your Choice

God seems to say in scripture that the best way to deal with a complaint is to take it before God, or at least those who God has put in leadership who can then deal with it fairly and wisely.  It’s your choice to trust God's way or yours.

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Some wise bosses when they hear a complaint, will usually listen and then ask the one bringing the complaint what they suggest to resolve the issue.  If the employee has no idea, then the boss usually dismisses them and tells them to get back to work and mind their own responsibilities.  So, if you have a complaint at work, be ready with a well-thought-out solution.  Who knows, you may receive a raise or job promotion.  0:-)

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Listen to the Holy Spirit - you can best do this by spending time with Him -  allowing Him to reveal any areas where you need to change.  When He alerts you to these areas, repent and release them. 

Scripture Reading:

Numbers 12:1-15 

Psalm 77:3, 142:1-3

John 6:61 ​​​

 

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